25 LGBTQ+ movies that don't end morbidly
Thanks to the ubiquitousness of the trope鈥攊n which queer characters are killed off at much higher rates than cisgender heterosexual ones鈥攖here has historically been a dearth of film and television with queer characters getting a happy ending. Or, at the very least, an ending they survive to see. In fact, it is difficult to think of stories in which substantial queer characters don't end up dead or heartbroken to the point of collapse. Popular films and TV shows that have invoked this trope include "Buffy the Vampire Slayer," "Brokeback Mountain," "Pretty Little Liars" (twice), "Black Swan," "The Walking Dead," "Teen Wolf," and .
The stakes for giving queer characters equal odds at survival are higher than merely wanting more happy endings; the continued usage of the trope can be interpreted as , or as a cautionary tale for what happens when one deviates from heterosexuality. This is why, when a rare television show or film subverts the proverbial queer death sentence, it is worth noting and celebrating.
To this end, dug through queer film history to spotlight 25 films that, without giving too much away, don't end morbidly for the LGBTQ+ characters. To qualify, the film had to have a , at least 2,500 user votes on IMDb, and at least a 6.5 IMDb user rating.
And Then We Danced (2019)
- Director: Levan Akin
- IMDb user rating: 7.7
- Metascore: 68
- Runtime: 113 minutes
鈥淎nd Then We Danced鈥 is a Georgian film that follows dancer Merab (Levan Gelbakhiani), as he falls in love with fellow dancer Irakli (Bachi Valishvili). The film centers on a passion for art, and love and support persisting despite societal pressures and homophobia. Screenings of the film sparked in Georgia, where homosexuality is legal but seen as highly taboo.
Being 17 (2016)
- Director: Andr茅 T茅chin茅
- IMDb user rating: 7.2
- Metascore: 83
- Runtime: 116 minutes
This French coming-of-age drama was co-written by Andr茅 T茅chin茅 and C茅line Sciamma (鈥淧ortrait of a Lady on Fire鈥) and follows two 17-year-old boys as they navigate a hostile, then romantic, relationship. Family dynamics and loss are also explored. 鈥淏eing 17鈥 mines the complexities of youth, desire, privilege, and what 鈥渕anhood鈥 really means, all against the backdrop of the French Pyrenees.
The Birdcage (1996)
- Director: Mike Nichols
- IMDb user rating: 7.2
- Metascore: 72
- Runtime: 117 minutes
Starring Robin Williams and Nathan Lane as a gay couple who own a drag club called The Birdcage. This comedy explores the hilarity and prejudice that can ensue when two disparate worlds are brought together in the name of love. Though the film came out in the mid 鈥90s, its message still lands today, interrogating the ever-present quandaries of masculinity, homophobia, and a society at war with itself.
Bound (1996)
- Directors: Lana Wachowski, Lilly Wachowski
- IMDb user rating: 7.3
- Metascore: 61
- Runtime: 109 minutes
The debut film by the sisters and trans activist duo Lana and Lilly Wachowski (of 鈥淭he Matrix鈥 fame), this lesbian crime thriller centers on a woman who wants to escape a relationship with her mafioso boyfriend. She schemes with her new girlfriend, an ex-con, to steal millions of dollars from the mafia. Queer sex educator and feminist writer was consulted to choreograph the sex scenes. Both steamy and extremely violent, 鈥淏ound鈥 is a across multiple genres.
But I'm a Cheerleader (1999)
- Director: Jamie Babbit
- IMDb user rating: 6.7
- Metascore: 39
- Runtime: 85 minutes
This satirical cult classic stars a young Natasha Lyonne as a cheerleader who is unexpectedly sent to a conversion therapy camp after her family and friends decide she's displaying homosexual tendencies. Campy, smart, and over the top, "But I'm a Cheerleader" explores coming of age, coming out, falling in love, and chosen family, while lambasting many commonplace in the late '90s.
Carol (2015)
- Director: Todd Haynes
- IMDb user rating: 7.2
- Metascore: 94
- Runtime: 118 minutes
Starring Cate Blanchett as the glamorous and mysterious Carol, and Rooney Mara as aspiring photographer and shopgirl Therese, 鈥淐arol鈥 is based on Patricia Highsmith鈥檚 1952 novel, 鈥淭he Price of Salt.鈥 It took decades for the film to get made, as financing for a was difficult to procure. Many critics lamented that it was not nominated for Best Picture at the 2016 Oscars, with one arguing that it was its lack of a for its queer characters that led to its being snubbed: 鈥淯ltimately, 鈥楥arol鈥檚 most transgressive quality is its refusal to engage in such shenanigans; this is a film about full-blooded gay lives, not tragic gay deaths.鈥
Desert Hearts (1985)
- Director: Donna Deitch
- IMDb user rating: 7.0
- Metascore: 67
- Runtime: 91 minutes
Seen as a , 鈥淒esert Hearts鈥 was of the first mainstream films to center a in 1985, paving the way for films like 鈥淐arol鈥 decades later. Donna Deitch鈥檚 film focuses on an East Coast professor filing for divorce in Reno. When she meets the younger Cay, a relationship begins to develop, complicating both their current situations as well as their futures. Deitch raised nearly all the funding for the film herself over the course of four years.
Disobedience (2017)
- Director: Sebasti谩n Lelio
- IMDb user rating: 6.6
- Metascore: 74
- Runtime: 114 minutes
Starring Rachel Weisz and Rachel McAdams, 鈥淒isobedience鈥 centers around Weisz鈥檚 character, Ronit, who returns to the London ultra-Orthodox Jewish community for her father鈥檚 funeral鈥攂ut she was ostracized from the community beforehand. After reencountering her childhood friend Esti (McAdams), their romance rekindles, leaving both women and the community to confront their beliefs. While the film garnered for its representation of both Orthodoxy and queerness, some remarked on the casting of non-Jewish McAdams and the role of straight, cisgender, non-Jewish director Sebasti谩n Lelio in telling this particular story.
The Duke of Burgundy (2014)
- Director: Peter Strickland
- IMDb user rating: 6.5
- Metascore: 87
- Runtime: 104 minutes
鈥淭he Duke of Burgundy鈥 tells the story of a moth and butterfly scholar鈥擟ynthia, and her younger partner, Evelyn鈥攁s they navigate a BDSM relationship in which only one of them is truly invested. Teasing apart themes of love, pleasure, fear of abandonment, aging, and inadequacy, the film was ranked by as one of the best of 2015 for its deep emotional core layered under 鈥渟urface-level kinkiness.鈥
God's Own Country (2017)
- Director: Francis Lee
- IMDb user rating: 7.7
- Metascore: 85
- Runtime: 104 minutes
Described by some critics as the "British 'Brokeback Mountain'"鈥攂ut without the morbid ending鈥"God's Own Country" follows a Yorkshire sheep farmer who meets a Romanian migrant worker when he comes to work on the farm. As initial animosity gives way to a passionate and intimate relationship, they must choose how to live among hardship, loss, family obligation, and personal shortcomings.
The Handmaiden (2016)
- Director: Park Chan-wook
- IMDb user rating: 8.1
- Metascore: 84
- Runtime: 145 minutes
This South Korean psycho-erotic thriller is set during the Japanese occupation of Korea and is an adaptation of Sara Waters鈥 novel 鈥淔ingersmith.鈥 鈥淭he Handmaiden鈥 follows a woman involved in a scheme to steal the fortune of an heiress by becoming her handmaiden, but things become increasingly complicated and sinister as feelings develop and the co-conspirators鈥 motives are revealed.
Happiest Season (2020)
- Director: Clea DuVall
- IMDb user rating: 6.6
- Metascore: 69
- Runtime: 102 minutes
This queer holiday film features an all-star cast including Kristen Stewart, Aubrey Plaza, Dan Levy, and Alison Brie. When Abby (Stewart) and Harper (Mackenzie Davis) go to Harper鈥檚 conservative parents鈥 house for the holidays, they must keep their relationship a secret, as Harper is not out to her parents. As the visit progresses, it becomes more and more difficult to keep the truth from coming out, causing both shenanigans and conflict. 鈥淗appiest Season鈥 was written and directed by Clea DuVall of 鈥淏ut I鈥檓 a Cheerleader鈥 fame.
Hedwig and the Angry Inch (2001)
- Director: John Cameron Mitchell
- IMDb user rating: 7.7
- Metascore: 85
- Runtime: 95 minutes
Based on the 1998 rock musical of the same name, 鈥淗edwig and the Angry Inch鈥 follows Hedwig鈥檚 journey from a singer in East Germany to the wife of a U.S. soldier in America, to performer and musician. While Hedwig has been embraced by some over the years as a , director and creator John Cameron Mitchell has said that he did not conceive 鈥淗edwig鈥 as a trans story, but rather as a drag story. Controversy arose after an Australian production of the show cast a cisgender man to play Hedwig, causing many in the LGBTQ+ community to petition the production to instead.
Imagine Me & You (2005)
- Director: Ol Parker
- IMDb user rating: 6.7
- Metascore: 49
- Runtime: 90 minutes
A traditional rom-com in most ways apart from the central romance, 鈥淚magine Me & You鈥 tells the story of Rachel and Luce, whose meet-cute occurs at Rachel鈥檚 wedding (to a man). As the two realize their feelings for each other, they must navigate the potential fallout of their own lives and the lives of their family and friends.
Laurence Anyways (2012)
- Director: Xavier Dolan
- IMDb user rating: 7.6
- Metascore: 73
- Runtime: 168 minutes
"Laurence Anyways" is a Quebecois film that follows Laurence (Melvil Poupaud), a trans woman, as she navigates her gender transition and her changing relationship with her girlfriend, Fred (Suzanne Cl茅ment). Told over the course of many years, the film mines the persistence and changeability of love, as well as the nature of growing apart and together again.
Love, Simon (2018)
- Director: Greg Berlanti
- IMDb user rating: 7.6
- Metascore: 72
- Runtime: 110 minutes
This high school romantic comedy tells the story of Simon (Nick Robinson), a closeted gay high schooler, as he cultivates an online relationship with an anonymous classmate and attempts to keep his queerness a secret from his friends, family, and classmates. 鈥淟ove, Simon鈥 proved , and is one of the top 25 highest-grossing teen romances of all time.
Maurice (1987)
- Director: James Ivory
- IMDb user rating: 7.7
- Metascore: 75
- Runtime: 140 minutes
This Edwardian period drama, based on E.M. Forster鈥檚 novel of the same name, explores gay romance in a highly repressive, political, and social environment. Maurice (James Wilby) is a Cambridge student who finds himself developing feelings for his classmate, Clive (Hugh Grant). Navigating issues of class and homophobia, Maurice must choose whether to conform or follow his heart. The film鈥檚 release at the , as well as its nonmorbid, explicit portrayal of queer love, made it groundbreaking for its time.
Moonlight (2016)
- Director: Barry Jenkins
- IMDb user rating: 7.4
- Metascore: 99
- Runtime: 111 minutes
Critically acclaimed 鈥淢oonlight鈥 follows Chiron, a young Black boy in Miami, as he grows up, grapples with his sexuality, the meaning of family and masculinity, and what intimacy can look like. The film is split into three parts, each featuring a different chapter of Chiron鈥檚 life as he becomes an adult. The film is groundbreaking for its predominantly Black cast and director-writer team, and because it was the first film with a to win an Oscar for Best Picture.
My Beautiful Laundrette (1985)
- Director: Stephen Frears
- IMDb user rating: 6.8
- Metascore: 75
- Runtime: 97 minutes
鈥淢y Beautiful Laundrette鈥 is set in London during the Thatcher administration, and explores the complex relations between white Londoners and Pakistani communities during that time. The film explores the relationship between Omar, a young Pakistani man, and Johnny, a member of a far-right street gang, as they develop an unlikely romance and manage a laundromat together. Johnny is played by Daniel Day-Lewis in his .
Pariah (2011)
- Director: Dee Rees
- IMDb user rating: 7.2
- Metascore: 79
- Runtime: 86 minutes
Seen by many as having paved the way for "Moonlight" and "Pose," Dee Rees' "Pariah" is the story of Alike, a Black teenager growing up in Brooklyn, as she grapples with her sexuality, her family's religiosity, and fostering both romantic and platonic friendships where she is seen and accepted. Rees began writing "Pariah" as a graduate film student, and she has continued to make groundbreaking works in Black queer cinema. In an interview, she said, "I'm just interested in seeing myself on screen. I'm interested in seeing my community on screen. And sometimes that's not just about their identity 鈥 let them be whole characters beyond their sexuality."
Saving Face (2004)
- Director: Alice Wu
- IMDb user rating: 7.4
- Metascore: 65
- Runtime: 91 minutes
鈥淪aving Face鈥 is a romantic comedy featuring Wil (Michelle Krusiec), a young Chinese-American surgeon who is keeping her sexuality a secret from her mother and family. When she meets and develops feelings for Vivian (Lynn Chen), a Chinese American dancer, she鈥檚 forced to weigh the consequences of keeping the truth from everyone. Wu faced several roadblocks in the development of the film, including studios asking her to so that Reese Witherspoon or Scarlett Johansson could be cast. Wu refused to compromise, finally making the film her own way and casting Mandarin-speaking actors. Her follow-up to the film, 鈥,鈥 came out on Netflix in 2020.
Thelma (2017)
- Director: Joachim Trier
- IMDb user rating: 7.0
- Metascore: 74
- Runtime: 116 minutes
This Norwegian supernatural thriller follows Thelma (Eili Harboe), a young woman from a religious family who develops feelings for a female classmate in college and soon discovers she has 鈥淐arrie鈥-esque psychokinetic powers that she can鈥檛 control. Juggling horror, self-discovery, and the excitement of falling in love, 鈥淭helma鈥 interrogates how repression and lack of acceptance can push humans to their limits.
To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar (1995)
- Director: Beeban Kidron
- IMDb user rating: 6.6
- Metascore: 60
- Runtime: 109 minutes
鈥淭o Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar'' is a tale of a group of drag queens on a cross-country road trip from New York City to Hollywood. The film blends 鈥淭helma and Louise鈥-type shenanigans with some features of a makeover movie, and stars Wesley Snipes, Patrick Swayze, and John Leguizamo. Released during the AIDS epidemic by Steven Spielberg鈥檚 production company, 鈥淭o Wong Foo鈥 was the at the box office for two weeks after its release.
The Watermelon Woman (1996)
- Director: Cheryl Dunye
- IMDb user rating: 7.1
- Metascore: 74
- Runtime: 90 minutes
As the first narrative feature-length film to be released by an , 鈥淭he Watermelon Woman鈥 grapples with the racist trope of the 鈥渕ammy鈥 archetype in films from the 1930s. The main character, based on Cheryl Dunye herself, searches for the identity of an uncredited actress who portrayed a character referred to only as 鈥淭he Watermelon Woman.鈥 This auto-fictional work plays with filmmaking and documenting as ways of probing the past, as well as the present.
Weekend (2011)
- Director: Andrew Haigh
- IMDb user rating: 7.6
- Metascore: 81
- Runtime: 97 minutes
"Weekend" centers on a weekend-long romantic encounter between Russell and Glen after they meet at a gay club. Both men are in the habit of documenting their sexual exploits, and they end up forming a connection. They also discuss the different ways they interact with their sexualities and their public and private personas. Andrew Haigh also directed the 2015 film "45 Years."